Predict break-up in advance
Feel like your partner doesn't understand you? An online survey meant for you and your partner might just be the elusive solution you were looking for. Read on and salvage your relationship.india Updated: Jul 16, 2010 13:13 IST
In the July edition of the journal Psychological Science, researchers outline have found a new tool "partner-GNAT", a technique using word association drills to reveal subconscious feelings about your relationship and predict break-ups a year in advance. Here is the study's online survey for you and your partner.
On July 12, Ronald D. Rogge, PhD told Relaxnews that couples "could invest in the relationship by doing things like trying to spend quality time together and treating each other with more kindness and less anger on a day to day basis.
"Attitudes can always change and the more fun you have with a partner the more positive your attitude should become."
Rogge also explained that he and colleagues currently have a follow-up study underway.
The survey requires both you and your partner separately filling out the same survey online that includes a short form with relationship facts (how long you have been together, exclusive, living situation, ‘pet names'), word drills (in the beginning and end) and a detailed questionnaire about the dynamics of your relationship (how often does your partner use profanity towards you? are you warm and cheerful?).
The survey seems to work better on a PC than a Mac and it takes longer than the 5-10 minutes described in the beginning, so if you plan to take the survey set aside 30 minutes or so.
To join the study online and take the survey, go to: http://www.courses.rochester.edu/surveys/funk/GNATintT0/index.htm
In addition to the partner-GNAT word association and word sorting tasks, Rogge says there is "a second (study) that should be starting soon and several more where we are simply collecting the longitudinal data.
"We are now trying to understand how these implicit or subconscious attitudes might shape relationships and influence their outcomes."
"Once we have validated the partner-GNAT a little more thoroughly, we are definitely hoping to extend its use to couples in treatment, relationship enhancing workshops, and even mobile apps," added Rogge.