Have you fallen for her? Know the signs
Women have breezed in and out of your life, but this one woman refuses to go away from your mind. Want to know why?sex and relationships Updated: Aug 07, 2013 11:41 IST
Women have breezed in and out of your life. Not one has held your attention for long. Now, suddenly, there’s this one woman who refuses to go away from your mind.
You love to be with her, long to get SMSes or calls from her and instantly brighten up when you see her. She has you wondering if she’s “the one”.
Does that mean you are in love? We help you figure out if you have fallen hook, line and sinker for the woman.
Ex-file gathers dust
Ever since you met this new woman, the thought of getting back together with your ex hasn’t even occurred to you.
Come to think of it, you barely recall what you found so great about your ex in the first place. Can’t stop thinking about her. You are consumed by the thoughts of this new woman.
She just pops into your head for no apparent reason, and you wonder if she thinks of you half as much as you do. You even pick up your cell several times during the day to call her but don’t for fear of looking overeager.
If she’s the last person on your mind before you go to sleep and the first person you think of when you wake up, then you don’t really need to read on to know if you’re in love.
You care about her
When you’re in love with a woman, you want to know all about her: who she is, what she thinks, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her and her feelings.
You’ll feel bad if she had a bad day or is upset about something. You find her quirks charming If the way she wriggles her nose or the fact that she sniffs all red nosed when she has a cold delights you, then there’s fire.
She does and says things that make her different, and you like it. You can’t quite put your finger on why, but it doesn’t even matter. You like her just the way she is.
Chemistry, more chemistry
You can’t be in love with someone you don’t share a chemistry. If you seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in similar ways, that’s a great sign.If you also generate enough heat and get goose bumps every time she looks at you, then she is probably someone you could fall in love with.
Although you can’t help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks by you tend to ignore most of , them. Furthermore, you don’t seem to be flirting half as much as you used to.
You are slowly realising that she’s often the only woman in the room who matters, and for some reason that’s okay with you. Time with her is divine This one is pretty obvious but important nonetheless.
You look forward to seeing her, and don’t care much about what the two of you will be doing. Lately, just going for a walk with her sounds like the best way you could possibly spend an evening.
Furthermore, when you’re not together, you miss her. You let go of guys night outs just to be with her. And you find yourself trying to incorporate her into your scheme of things. Priorities take a back seat Your ever-important “to do” list seems quite stagnant these days — being with her always manages to put your other plans and obligations on a backburner.
Your workaholic tendency of bringing home work on weekends to get ahead seems a bit excessive to you of late.
She figures in your future plans
It used to be that the future with a woman meant your date on Saturday night, but with this woman, the future seems infinite.
Not only do you plan to see her this weekend, but you want to see her a year from now as well. When planning your next vacation, you know you want to spend it with her.
And when you get an invitation to a wedding that takes place three months from now, you ask her to be your date without thinking that it’s too far away to tell if you’ll still be together. She’s the one If you are currently dating a woman or know of a woman who makes you act in any of the ways mentioned above, then you are seriously falling for her. Enjoy the ride!
First Published: Feb 24, 2007 13:01 IST