'I get aroused in sleep'
1. I am a 25-year-old man, getting married next year. I have a big problem that my penis is bent towards its right. Second problem is that when I tried having intercourse with my girlfriend, I didn't succeed though I get aroused during sleep. What is the reason? Will my sex life be pleasurable? Help me out.
Wife doesn't sleep for days
2. My wife who is 37 has the problem of sleeplessness from last eight years. She does not sleep for more than 5-6 hours in a week. Sometimes, she stays awake for 2-3 days at a stretch. We have consulted many doctors but in vain. The situation seems to be leading nowhere. Can you suggest a way out?
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Love, sex and marriage?
1. I am madly in love with a Sikh girl. She loves me too. We have had sex many times and she wants to marry but I am a Muslim. Also, she does not want to marry in the Sikh community. She is very loyal to me. Please suggest a way out.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Any two consenting adults, that is, males above the age of 21 and females above the age of 18 can go for court marriage without questions being asked about religion or caste. There is no need for changing religion. The court marriage costs very little money in the form of court fees, etc.
Sex life is exciting but...
2. I have been married for last four months and all these months our sex life has been exciting. But, from last few weeks I just don't get an erection (however hard I try). And one fine day, I will wake up and will get a proper erection. My question is does having sex everyday affects the erection level and why is it that on some days I don't get erection at all and other days everything's fine? Please explain in detail.
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Having sex every day does not affect the frequency and quality of erection. It is common to experience failure of erection once-in-a-while and you need not worry as you still are getting spontaneous erections in the mornings. However, one should consult a physician for frequent failures in erection for ruling out treatable diseases causing the problem.