It's painful and heartbreaking: Shriver
After Arnold Schwarzenegger acknowledged that he fathered a child with a member of his household staff, wife Maria Shriver said that it was a painful and heartbreaking time and asked for compassion and privacy.india Updated: May 17, 2011 23:28 IST
After Arnold Schwarzenegger acknowledged that he fathered a child with a member of his household staff, wife Maria Shriver asked for compassion and privacy.
Former California governor Schwarzenegger has acknowledged that he fathered a child with a member of his household staff, a revelation that apparently prompted Shriver to leave the couple's home before they announced their separation last week.
Schwarzenegger and Shriver jointly announced on May 9 that they were splitting up after 25 years of marriage.
Yet, Shriver moved out of the family's Brentwood mansion earlier in the year after Schwarzenegger acknowledged the child is his, The Los Angeles Times reported on Tuesday.
"After leaving the governor's office I told my wife about this event, which occurred over a decade ago," Schwarzenegger told the Times in a statement that was later sent to The Associated Press.
"I understand and deserve the feelings of anger and disappointment among my friends and family. There are no excuses and I take full responsibility for the hurt I have caused. I have apologized to Maria, my children and my family. I am truly sorry.
"I ask that the media respect my wife and children through this extremely difficult time," the statement concluded.
"While I deserve your attention and criticism, my family does not."
Hours later, Shriver also released a statement: "This is a painful and heartbreaking time. As a mother, my concern is for the children. I ask for compassion, respect and privacy as my children and I try to rebuild our lives and heal. I will have no further comment."
Schwarzenegger's representatives also did not comment further.
The Times did not publish the former staffer's name nor that of her child but said the woman worked for the family for 20 years and retired in January.
Schwarzenegger issued his statement to the Times late on Monday, after the newspaper had interviewed the former staffer. She had told the Times that another man - her husband at the time - was the child's father.
When the Times later informed the woman of the governor's statement, she declined to comment further.
Schwarzenegger later released the statement to The Associated Press and other news organizations.
The child was born before Schwarzenegger began his seven-year stint in public office.
Shriver stood by her husband during his 2003 gubernatorial campaign after the Los Angeles Times reported accusations that he had a history of groping women.
Schwarzenegger later said he "behaved badly sometimes."
In his first public comments since the couple announced their breakup, Schwarzenegger said last week that he and Shriver "both love each other very much."
"We are very fortunate that we have four extraordinary children and we're taking one day at a time," he said at a Los Angeles event marking Israeli independence.
Their children range in age from 13 to 21.
Since his term as California governor ended in early January, Schwarzenegger, 63, has hopscotched around the world, his wife nowhere in sight.
While the "Terminator" star appeared confident about the future since exiting politics, cutting movie deals and fashioning himself as a global spokesman for green energy, Shriver, known for her confidence, seemed unsettled.
Shriver, 55, maintained her own identity when her husband entered politics, though she gave up her job at NBC.
Their union was often tested in Sacramento, where the former action star contended with a rough seven years of legislative gridlock, a budget crisis and lingering questions about his fidelity.
First Published: May 17, 2011 23:07 IST