What to do when you've been ghosted?

By , Delhi
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

From loving ourselves to accepting reality, here are a few tips to heal after being ghosted.

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Sometimes it is not our fault at all when a relationship stops abruptly. One of the instances is ghosting. This happens when one of the partners involved in the relationship starts to avoid the other person to the point that they stop existing in their lives. "Being ghosted is never your fault, even if the relationship ended for a legitimate reason. It is important to remember that ghosting is a reflection of the other person's actions, choices, and communication skills, rather than a reflection of your own worth or value. It is not your fault if someone chooses to ghost you," explained Therapist Israa Nasir.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

Sometimes it is not our fault at all when a relationship stops abruptly. One of the instances is ghosting. This happens when one of the partners involved in the relationship starts to avoid the other person to the point that they stop existing in their lives. "Being ghosted is never your fault, even if the relationship ended for a legitimate reason. It is important to remember that ghosting is a reflection of the other person's actions, choices, and communication skills, rather than a reflection of your own worth or value. It is not your fault if someone chooses to ghost you," explained Therapist Israa Nasir.(Unsplash)

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Israa further noted down a few things to do when we feel that we have been ghosted. One of the primary things to do is to accept the emotions that we are feeling. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

Israa further noted down a few things to do when we feel that we have been ghosted. One of the primary things to do is to accept the emotions that we are feeling. (Unsplash)

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Instead of being in denial, we should start accepting reality and see the situation for what it is. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

Instead of being in denial, we should start accepting reality and see the situation for what it is. (Unsplash)

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We should, at all costs, refrain from trying to contact them or engage with them in any way. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

We should, at all costs, refrain from trying to contact them or engage with them in any way. (Unsplash)

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We should find safe people to be around, make our own community and connect with them. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

We should find safe people to be around, make our own community and connect with them. (Unsplash)

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In these situations, we should remind ourselves more how much we love ourselves and indulge in self-care. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

In these situations, we should remind ourselves more how much we love ourselves and indulge in self-care. (Unsplash)

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We also should reflect on the lessons that we have learnt from this situation. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Jul 15, 2023 03:26 pm IST

We also should reflect on the lessons that we have learnt from this situation. (Unsplash)

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    ABOUT THE AUTHOR
    Tapatrisha Das

    Tapatrisha is Content Producer with Hindustan Times. She covers stories related to health, relationships, and fashion.

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