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Thursday, Nov 14, 2019

'I am too weak for sex'

I am a 25-year-old man. I have indulged too much in masturbation in my teenage. Now, I am too weak to get married. I cannot enjoy normal sex life. What should I do?

india Updated: Jan 03, 2006 12:50 IST



'I am too weak for sex'

I am a 25-year-old man. I have indulged too much in masturbation in my teenage. Now, I am too weak to get married. I cannot enjoy normal sex life. I am suffering from nightfall and premature ejaculation. Just the feeling of a girl with me excites me so much that semen comes out. My problem is that I am going to be married soon but I do not want to spoil someone's life. I want to get treated but there are so many doctors I don't know to who to trust. Please guide me.


Pleasurable sex without condoms

I am 30-years-old and about to get married. My fiancée is 27-year-old. We both are virgins but talk about sex over the phone. We don't want to use condoms but at the same time we don't want the risk of pregnancy. What are the contraceptives we can opt for?


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I fancy my cousin!

I am 11-years-old and I like three of my cousins who are 14, 15 and 17 respectively. I chat with the one who is 17-year-old on messenger but I don't know what to say to him. I am stuck in a peculiar situation. Guide me.


Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:
Why use the word 'fancy' and get confused about feelings. Say, you love your cousins. You cannot be a pal, that is, equal to this 17-year-old cousin who probably treats you like a kid and tolerates your childish MSN chats. Eleven-year-olds are expected to have some respect for older cousins.


I want a girlfriend

I am a 20-year-old boy. All my friends have girlfriends except for me. I get embarrassed. What should I do? I have a crush on few girls and I want to talk to them but all of them are involved in relationships. I am really demoralised. Please help me.


Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:
You do not have to imitate others. Just be comfortable with yourself exactly the way you are. After all it is going to be only one life and why not live it your own way. Moreover, one need not run after girls as eventually girls are going to spot you and seek your company for your uniqueness.