Relationship tips: 5 unconscious beliefs that block us from getting the love that we want

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Published on Mar 09, 2024 06:00 am IST

Explore the hidden barriers to love by delving into five unconscious beliefs that may be obstructing the path to the fulfilling relationships we desire.

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“Overcoming unconscious beliefs involves introspection, self-compassion, and often seeking support through therapy or personal development. Recognising and challenging these limiting beliefs can pave the way for a more receptive and fulfilling experience of love,” says Amanda Twiggs, marriage coach and relationship expert. She further shared in her recent Instagram post five unconscious beliefs that block us from getting the love that we want.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Mar 09, 2024 06:00 am IST

“Overcoming unconscious beliefs involves introspection, self-compassion, and often seeking support through therapy or personal development. Recognising and challenging these limiting beliefs can pave the way for a more receptive and fulfilling experience of love,” says Amanda Twiggs, marriage coach and relationship expert. She further shared in her recent Instagram post five unconscious beliefs that block us from getting the love that we want.(Unsplash)

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Fear of vulnerability: Not being emotionally vulnerable and expressing our true selves blocks even our partners from really getting to know us. Fear of judgment or rejection keeps us from sharing our feelings, dreams and desires sabotaging our closeness and connection.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Fear of vulnerability: Not being emotionally vulnerable and expressing our true selves blocks even our partners from really getting to know us. Fear of judgment or rejection keeps us from sharing our feelings, dreams and desires sabotaging our closeness and connection.(Unsplash)

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Unworthiness: Believing we are unworthy of love can be a significant barrier to getting the love that we want from our partner. This deep-seated belief, often stemming from past experiences or self-perception, can create a subconscious resistance to receiving love.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Unworthiness: Believing we are unworthy of love can be a significant barrier to getting the love that we want from our partner. This deep-seated belief, often stemming from past experiences or self-perception, can create a subconscious resistance to receiving love.(Unsplash)

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Limited self-love: Insufficient self-love can impede our capacity to receive love from others. If we struggle to love ourselves, we might question the authenticity of others' love or feel undeserving of their affection.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Limited self-love: Insufficient self-love can impede our capacity to receive love from others. If we struggle to love ourselves, we might question the authenticity of others' love or feel undeserving of their affection.(Unsplash)

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Distrust: Deep-rooted distrust, whether from past betrayals or insecurities, can act as a formidable barrier to receiving love. A lack of trust in others' intentions can make it challenging to open up and accept love willingly.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Distrust: Deep-rooted distrust, whether from past betrayals or insecurities, can act as a formidable barrier to receiving love. A lack of trust in others' intentions can make it challenging to open up and accept love willingly.(Unsplash)

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Perfectionism: Striving for perfection and believing that we must meet certain standards to be loved can create a self-imposed barrier. The relentless pursuit of flawlessness may make it difficult for us to accept love as we are, imperfections and all.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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Perfectionism: Striving for perfection and believing that we must meet certain standards to be loved can create a self-imposed barrier. The relentless pursuit of flawlessness may make it difficult for us to accept love as we are, imperfections and all.(Unsplash)

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    Akanksha Agnihotri

    Akanksha Agnihotri is a lifestyle journalist with over 3 years of experience. She is a psychology graduate and holds a postgraduate diploma in Radio and Television Journalism from the Indian Institute of Mass Communication, Delhi, where she graduated as a gold medalist. Originally from Bhopal, the beautiful capital of Madhya Pradesh, she draws inspiration from the city’s rich cultural heritage and layered storytelling traditions that subtly shape her narrative voice. She writes extensively about fashion, beauty, health, relationships, culture, and food, exploring everything from trending styles and runway moments to wellness routines and mindful living. Passionate about meaningful and candid conversations, she enjoys interviewing celebrities, doctors, designers, and film personalities, diving into discussions on fitness, beauty, mental health, and everything fun in between. With a keen eye for trends and a thoughtful understanding of human behaviour, she brings depth, sensitivity, and authenticity to her stories, ensuring they resonate with a wide and diverse audience. When she’s not working, you’ll usually find her lost in a book, planning her next mountain trek, or mapping out spontaneous travel escapes. She loves discovering new authors, revisiting old favourites, and spending quiet afternoons in museums soaking in art, history, and culture. An avid bird-watching enthusiast, she finds joy in early morning walks, spotting rare birds, and reconnecting with nature. Whether sipping coffee while journaling her thoughts or exploring hidden corners of a new city, she constantly seeks inspiration in everyday moments that often turn into compelling story ideas.

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