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Ways unmet childhood needs show up in adult relationships
From seeking external validation to struggling with identity, here are a few ways by which unmet childhood needs can impact adult relationships.
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One of the characteristics of a healthy relationship is the ability to express our own emotions. However, when we are brought up in dysfunctional homes where our emotions were not acknowledged, it has a deep impact on the way we behave in our adult relationships. "Each stage brings new tasks for us to learn and if we have the right resources to successfully move through them, we're more likely to become secure adults," wrote Therapist Sadaf Siddiqi as she explained how unmet childhood needs impact adult relationships.(Unsplash)
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When our childhood needs are not met as a child, we start to mirror others as a coping mechanism to get through. Later, in adult relationships, we become extremely dependent on the other person. (Unsplash)
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People-pleasing behaviors stem from the very trauma of not having our childhood needs met. We also keep seeking external validation. (Unsplash)
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In childhood, we dealt with parents and caregivers who neglected us and our emotions. Hence, in adulthood, we have difficulty with intimacy and vulnerability. (Unsplash)
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People with unmet childhood needs are more prone to have depression in the later stages of lives as well. (Unsplash)
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