Are you in a relationship or situationship? 4 things you need to know about the difference

Updated on: Dec 12, 2024, 11:46:13 IST

By Sanya Panwar

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If you have asked yourself 'What are we?' you might be in a situationship. According to a relationship coach, here is how it is different from a relationship.

We have all heard of situationships by now. You know, the kind of casual or sexual relationships that exist between 'friends with benefits' and 'in a relationship'. It is basically a relationship that isn't even official: There are no hard launches on social media, no keeping toothbrushes at each others' place, and no meeting the parents. Also read | What is the best age to marry? Pros and cons of marrying in your 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond

In a recent Instagram post, relationship coach and author, Javal Bhatt highlighted the difference between a relationship and a situationship.

While you may think the rise in situationships could be linked to the infinite amount of options available on dating apps – why commit to monogamy with one person when you could be one swipe away from a more-perfect match? – Javal spoke about how the intentions and responses vary in 'relationship vs situationship'. He shared four instances:

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Sample #1

◉ Relationship: My intention is clear, I want to date to marry.

◉ Situationship: Let's see, let's go with the flow.

Sample #2

◉ Relationship: I don't accept inconsistency, breadcrumbs, hot and cold behaviour, or mixed signals. I clearly communicate and walk away if needed.

◉ Situationship: I am okay with breadcrumbs and mixed signals; just don't leave me.

Sample #3

◉ Relationship: I don't fake to impress anyone. I want someone to accept the real me, and I am looking for a connection, not time pass.

◉ Situationship: I just want someone because I feel too lonely. So, I am okay with faking and changing myself just because I want them to like me and accept me.

Sample #4

◉ Relationship: I am okay letting them go if someone does not need me and does not reciprocate, but ignores and ghosts me. I know I want a connection. So why fear, hold or force?

◉ Situationship: I want to hold on because may be I will never find love again. I have put so much time and effort into this person.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Sanya Panwar
With a keen eye for detail and a heart for storytelling, Sanya is a seasoned lifestyle journalist who has spent over a decade documenting the intersection of aesthetics and substance. Since stepping into the media world in 2012, she has cultivated a career defined by versatility, curiosity, and an unwavering passion for what makes life both beautiful and meaningful. Over the last many years, she has navigated the fast-paced realms of health, wellness, fitness and fashion while pivoting seamlessly into the nuances of decor and travel. Her work often explores the deeper layers of modern living, delving into art and decor trends that transform spaces, insightful perspectives on gender, parenting, and mental health, immersive travel narratives that capture the essence of a destination. A self-proclaimed aesthetics enthusiast, Sanya doesn't just report on trends — she analyses them. Whether she’s identifying the next shift in fitness or discovering a breakthrough in design, she uses her platform to spark meaningful conversations that resonate with a contemporary audience. Sanya is an alumna of St. Xavier’s College, Kolkata, and the Asian College of Journalism (ACJ), Chennai, where she honed the investigative rigour she brings to her lifestyle reporting today. When she isn't chasing deadlines or conducting interviews, Sanya practices what she preaches. You’ll likely find her sipping matcha, practicing yoga, or scouting the newest cafes. Above all, she finds her balance in nature — whether it's a quiet hike or a moment of reflection in the outdoors, she remains constantly inspired by the tranquillity of the natural world.Read More

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