Relationship coach shares 3 simple tips to keep the excitement and spark alive with your partner: ‘When you talk 24x7…’

Boredom and irritation often creep into long-term relationships - but relationship coach Javal Bhatt reveals 3 super easy ways to keep the spark alive.

Published on: Sep 22, 2025, 10:47:57 IST

By Eshana Saha

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Being in a long-term relationship isn’t always as effortless as the honeymoon phase makes it seem. Over time, many couples find themselves feeling bored, irritable, or even disconnected from their partners - small issues that, if left unchecked, can snowball into bigger relationship problems.

Relationship coach Javal Bhatt has shared 3 simple tips you can follow to prevent boredom in a relationship. (Unsplash)

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Javal Bhatt, a relationship coach, motivator, and writer, shared three simple tips to keep the spark alive in your relationship. In an Instagram video posted on November 26, 2022, he explained how to prevent boredom from creeping in, even after you’re fully committed. His advice focuses on building small but meaningful habits that keep love, curiosity, and excitement intact over time.

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Don’t stop flirting

According to Javal, it’s important to keep the spark of flirting alive, not just in the early stages of dating, but even after committing to a relationship or marriage. He explains, “Flirting keeps the romantic relationship alive and helps you prevent taking your partner or relationship for granted.”

Avoid talking all day

Javal points out that talking to your partner 24x7 means you are always updated about each other. This takes away the curiosity and excitement of sharing things when you finally meet or talk at the end of the day. Jawal’s advice? “Decide the mutual timings of the day when you both are available and fully free to invest the quality time.”

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Laugh together

The relationship coach recommends sharing memes, watching comedy movies together, and teasing each other in a playful way. He further elaborates, “I’m not saying you laugh all the time but research shows that a couple who often laughs together is a couple who stays together in a long lasting relationship.”

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Eshana Saha
Eshana Saha is a fresh face in lifestyle and cultural journalism, bringing a refined, multidisciplinary perspective to the intersection of entertainment, fashion and holistic wellbeing. With less than a year of professional experience, she has quickly adapted to high-pressure editorial environments and currently works full-time with HT Media. Prior to this, she interned for nearly six months with Hindustan Times’ entertainment and lifestyle vertical, where she gained hands-on experience in digital reporting, trend analysis and editorial storytelling. Based in New Delhi, Eshana specialises in comprehensive coverage of major cultural moments — from international film press tours to the curated aesthetics of global fashion showcases, award shows and music-centred events. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in English from St Xavier’s University, Kolkata, and a Master’s degree in English from the University of Delhi, equipping her with a strong academic foundation and a keen ability to deconstruct complex cultural trends into clear, high-impact narratives. Beyond the red carpet, Eshana has developed a growing focus on health and wellbeing reporting. She bridges the gap between celebrity-driven trends and practical, evidence-informed lifestyle advice, ensuring her work remains both aspirational and grounded in editorial rigour. She has extensively covered the health implications of Delhi’s air pollution crisis, while also playing a key role in amplifying expert-led insights on women’s health and mental wellbeing, helping translate complex medical perspectives into informed, impactful public awareness. An artist at heart, she explores multiple creative forms — from visual arts and music to culinary experiments — and brings a creative’s eye for nuance, texture and detail to every story. Whether analysing runway dynamics or examining emerging wellness movements, she remains committed to accuracy and the highest standards of contemporary journalistic ethics.Read More

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