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Signs that you are not communicating well

Published on Nov 20, 2023 11:32 IST
When we do not communicate well in a relationship, it can invite a lot of problems and sufferings. "You want to need each other. You want to bounce ideas off each other, brainstorm together, problem-solve, and come up with possibilities together! And let's not forget you would like to feel loved, valued, and deeply connected to this person," wrote Relationship Coach Julia Woods as she shared a few signs that show that we are not communicating well.6

Signs that you are shaming your partner

"The constant use of shaming behaviors in a relationship can have a strong spillover effect, too. It may lower the person’s self-esteem and trust and affect other areas like work, friendship, and personal development," wrote Therapist Sadaf Siddiqi. Here are a few signs that we may be shaming our partner.6
Published on Nov 18, 2023 24:30 IST

The cost you pay for constantly saying yes

When we are people-pleasing in nature, we are used to constantly saying yes to people. In most situations, even when we are not aligned with the idea, we have a difficult time saying no. "Forgive yourself for not recognising the toll people-pleasing has taken on your mental and emotional health," wrote Therapist Klara Kernig.6
Published on Nov 17, 2023 11:41 IST

Cellphone habits that might be anxiety

Sometimes we use our cellphones to create a barrier between us and other people – contrary to what cellphones should be used for. While cellphones are important, we should ensure to not end up using them in ways that are harmful for us. "If you find that you’re using your phone in unhealthy ways, or your phone habits are causing you anxiety, try not to judge or criticise yourself. Let it be a sign that you need to set some healthy boundaries with your phone and learn some healthier coping skills to deal with your anxiety," wrote Therapist Carrie Howard. Here are a few cellphone habits that can be anxiety.6
Published on Nov 16, 2023 08:58 IST