Delhiwale: Arc of a life

This dusty afternoon, Shiv Kumar, a rickshaw puller, is waiting for customers outside a bus stand in Ballabgarh, Faridabad, in the National Capital Region

This dusty afternoon, Shiv Kumar, a rickshaw puller, is waiting for customers outside a bus stand in Ballabgarh, Faridabad, in the National Capital Region. He graciously agrees to take part in our Proust Questionnaire series, in which citizens are nudged to make “Parisian parlour confessions”, all to explore our distinct experiences.

Delhiwale: Arc of a life

The principal aspect of your personality?Do paise mehnat karke kamata hoon, aur shanti se ghar pe rehta hoon (I earn two paisa through hard work, and live peacefully at home). Through hard work, I have built my own house in Ballabgarh. It has three rooms.

Your main fault?I have never done anything wrong. Not in my Bihar. Not here in Ballabgarh. I’m 55, and have spent most of my life here with imandari (honesty). My life in Ballabgarh started when I was around 12. Bhaisaheb (elder brother) was already working here as a rickshaw puller. Once, bhaisaheb’s wife was visiting us in our village for a few days. I was then a school student. When she was leaving back for Ballabgarh, bhabhi asked me to accompany her to the railway station to help her board the train with all her bags. At the station, she suddenly bought me a ticket too, and I went along with her. At first, I lived with bhaisaheb. He got me my first job in a salt factory, where I would crush pieces of salt into powder in a chakki. Then I became a door-to-door hawker of salt bottles. Then I worked in a brick kiln. After that, I returned to the village, where my father was ill. I looked after him for two years. Then he insisted I go back to the big city so that I could build my life, like the rest of my brothers. On returning to Ballabgarh, I worked in a cardboard factory, but it shut down some years later after problems with the labour union. I found work in a cable-making factory. Finally, I bought this rickshaw some six years ago.

Your favourite occupation?Whichever becomes a habit.

Your heroes in real life?My wife, Reema Devi.

Your favorite names?Soni and Shalu. My daughters’ names. Soni lives with her husband in Bihar. Shalu is a college student.

What would be your greatest misfortune?My son left me in grief. Randheer died in a bike accident ten years ago.

Your favourite qualities in a person?If a man is maha-gareeb (very poor), then he should have the sehen-shakti (power to endure) to bear his days and make a living.